倾听他人
Listening to Others
在别人说话时要认真倾听:看着说话的人,等对方说完,再针对对方说的事情作出回应,表明自己听到了,而不是只顾讲自己的想法。
Listen to others when they are speaking — looking at the speaker, waiting until they finish, and showing they have heard by responding to what was said rather than just talking about their own ideas
学习证据 / Evidence
- 面对说话的人,并在别人说话时保持专注
- 等别人说完之后再回应
- 回应别人真正说到的内容,而不是把话题转到自己的想法上
- Face the speaker and maintain attention while someone else is talking
- Wait until the other person has finished before responding
- Respond to what was actually said rather than changing the subject to their own idea
评估问题 / Assessment
当朋友在跟{{name}}讲自己周末的经历时,{{name}}是真的在听,并且会问一些相关的问题,而不是马上插话去讲自己的周末吗?
When a friend is telling {{name}} about their weekend, does {{name}} actually listen and ask questions about it — rather than immediately jumping in to talk about their own weekend?